Kelly McGonigal’s “How to make stress your friend” exhibits how looking at stress in a different way can actually reduce the effects of stress. McGonigal, a health psychologist, speaks about how she has always said that stress is terrible for one’s health, “ For years I've been telling people, stress makes you sick. It increases the risk of everything from the common cold to cardiovascular disease. Basically, I've turned stress into the enemy” (McGonigal). But she elaborates that stress does not lead to these health issues it is actually the belief that stress is bad that increases the risk of health issues. She talks about how if one looks at stress as something that actually helps them, they are have more courage, confidence, and are more likely to succeed. She also speaks about oxytocin, a hormone released when under stressful situations, and how it actually tells the brain to connect to other human to either be supported by others or to support other people. McGonigal shares a study that showed that people under stress who helped others had no risk of health issues from stress. Stress has always been viewed as the antagonist in everyone’s story, however, it has been proved to actually protagonist by Kelly McGonigal’s “How to make stress your friend”.
“How to make stress your friend” by Kelly McGonigal effectively portrays how stress can actually help one succeed because she presents studies run that have showed that belief of stress can cause health issue when stress can not. When in a stressful situation believing stress can help you succeed the effects of stress lessen and you start to feel more confident. Along with the belief that stress if helpful acting on the release of oxytocin by seeking out human interaction stress can be decreased and one can be more successful. For example, students have a lot of stress on their shoulders and if all students believed that stress was actually good and could make them more successful their grades could go up and they could be more happy because they will not have to worry about being stressed. If the rest of the world took this outlook on stress everyone could be healthier and happier because the effects of stress will be lessened. McGonigal’s message was very useful but her presentation style was also very effective. She included the audience by asking questions and having the audience raise their hands to answer, she also demonstrated a stressful situation and had the audience participate. As well as including the audience she also spoke in a very effective way, she did not speak too slow or too fast she also fluctuated her voice to make sure the audience knew what she was talking about was important. She also used good visuals, she had would show the effect of stress on the body and the numbers from the studies she had discussed. 
“How to make stress your friend” was informative, interesting to watch, and could help lead people to longer happier lives, I could apply all these aspects to my Ted talk. I could make sure to use informative visuals, make sure I am not monotone and keep my speech paced well. I also need to make sure I chose topic that can better the world. “How to make stress your friend” can change the way everyone makes decisions and sees situations.